Making someone leave me alone...WITHOUT HARMING THEM!!!!

[Rebecca Rubio]

Hello everyone, i'm a newbie witch and have hardly no experience whatsoever, but I am learning, slowly and surely. I'm hoping to find some way to have someone I love very much, GO AWAY. I have been in this relationship for 2 1/2 yrs and thought i have found the love of my life...now he's turned out to be moreless a stalker. We had a disagreement on Friday night & he got violent, kicked the front of my car, threw all my food on me while we were out eating and threw my coke all over me and the inside of the car...he jumped in the back seat while i was trying to leave him there and the manager had walked me to the car. I was scared i wasn't gonna make it to drop him off because i was afraid he would do something to hurt me or make me have a wreck before we got to his mom's. Needless to say, there were some other stuff done, over the weekend we had to take the phone's off the hook, he kept calling, harassing me on fb, kept calling my mom's cell phone, so today we made a police report and filed a restraining order. I don't want him hurt, i just want him to go away. This isn't the first time something like this has happened and if i don't stop it, he could really hurt me or my family. He just doesn't get it. I'm very limited w/what i can do, (living w/mom) but i do need some extra help. I don't think the restraining order is enough, he showed up my job today and was asked to leave 2X before he finally left, he continued calling the office throughout the day. Please give me some advice.

Blessings
Becky

[DEBBIE (Creator)]

Oh my word Becky, I have only just read this and my heart goes out to you hun xxx. I will pass this onto everyone for you as I am sure someone else willalso have some advice for you my friend. In the mean time, ask for Archangel Michael (although his sigil name is Ephrimvael and so you could call him by this name three times) to place his blue cloak of protection all around you and with his mighty sword, cut the ties that bind you to this person, visualise this happening and the ties vanish, then visualise this person vanish in a puff of blue light. See yourself jump up and down with happiness that he has gone out of your life. If you would also do this for you then please inform me, but I will only beable to do it next week as I go away for a long weekend. Keep strong and know that you are a powerful being of light and he has no right to take this away from you.

[ckevn]

You already have a restraining order, and he has violated it. Contact the police and tell them what he did today. He will be arrested and a bond should be set high enough to change his attitude, and his jail mates will probably help in the process lol!
I saw this banishing ritual in a movie entitled "Drawing Down the Moon." It goes like this:
Out and down, and into the ground, be washed away by the rain;
What's gone before is here no more and won't return again.
Follow your course back to its source, and bring no harm to me;
What I decide shall here abide, and the rest shall now go free!
when you recite this, visualize it as happening right then and there; and feel it in your gut!

[Storm ShadowBane]

Dear Rebecca, You need to call the police NOW, not the next time he does something or shows up at your work or harasses you, RIGHT NOW! These idiots like him don't stop on their own, they don't give up and go away. They must be forced to stop. I am only sorry I am not near you, I would make him desist and I would want to make him think I will hurt him because in his state of mind, it is the only thing that will get through. He doesn't love you or even like you he wants to POSSESS you, to own you so that the only thing in your mind is him.
I don't mean to frighten you, but this fool will escalate to violence if he isn't stopped, they always do. Please have him picked up and incarcerated and while he is in I would make sure that everyone that you know understands what he has tried to do and make sure family and friends know where you are and when you will be there. At least until he gets the point and put him away as many times as it takes. Make some friends of the local police so that they will help watch out for you.
Magic will only take you so far. You must also act in the physical as well.

Regards Storm

[Rebecca Rubio]

Thank you Debbie, i will do this. I really appreciate your help.
Blessings!!
Becky

[Rebecca Rubio]

THank you CKevn, this is soo helpful, i'm gonna use it & i'm gonna also use it at work...things aren't so hot there either. Gracias!!!!

ckevn said:

You already have a restraining order, and he has violated it. Contact the police and tell them what he did today. He will be arrested and a bond should be set high enough to change his attitude, and his jail mates will probably help in the process lol!
I saw this banishing ritual in a movie entitled "Drawing Down the Moon." It goes like this:
Out and down, and into the ground, be washed away by the rain;
What's gone before is here no more and won't return again.
Follow your course back to its source, and bring no harm to me;
What I decide shall here abide, and the rest shall now go free!
when you recite this, visualize it as happening right then and there; and feel it in your gut!

[Rebecca Rubio]

I understand what you are saying, I do work at an attorney's office so he knows now after being asked to leave on Monday, NOT TO COME BACK OR CALL....my boss is ready to take him out as well. Thanks for your support and encouragement. It really does mean alot....from everyone....I truly am blessed to have found this site where i can express and explain and not be judged...it's refreshing to find so many caring people.
Blessings
Becky )O(

Storm ShadowBane said:

Dear Rebecca, You need to call the police NOW, not the next time he does something or shows up at your work or harasses you, RIGHT NOW! These idiots like him don't stop on their own, they don't give up and go away. They must be forced to stop. I am only sorry I am not near you, I would make him desist and I would want to make him think I will hurt him because in his state of mind, it is the only thing that will get through. He doesn't love you or even like you he wants to POSSESS you, to own you so that the only thing in your mind is him.
I don't mean to frighten you, but this fool will escalate to violence if he isn't stopped, they always do. Please have him picked up and incarcerated and while he is in I would make sure that everyone that you know understands what he has tried to do and make sure family and friends know where you are and when you will be there. At least until he gets the point and put him away as many times as it takes. Make some friends of the local police so that they will help watch out for you.
Magic will only take you so far. You must also act in the physical as well.

Regards Storm